Also, I understand what you were saying about your brother acting up as a teen and you feeling that you needed to be extra “good”. I was the same way except that I was like… 18 when my brother hit his teens and I took my “good girl” into the extreme

In researching my last book though (I’m a writer), I was amazed to discover how perennially underestimated the middle child is. They develop great qualities as a result of being “squeezed.” Yet studies show they earn less, typically, than firsts because they are less motivated by $$ and more motivated by do-gooder type work. They leave their home state more than other birth orders so they can pursue their passions. So they may well earn less, but they tend to be happier in their chose careers (and with their spouses/ partners!). It’s all very interesting…. 😉

I have 4 younger siblings (two sisters and two brothers). My youngest brother is a total mess, and spends most of his money on porn and beer (he’s only 19 but still). My middle sisters are much more creative, outgoing and less responsible than I am. Although, I give them credit for trying and always asking for help if needed. My oldest brother is a lot like me, and has a very well paying job, with a wife and little girl. He’s always been very loyal and responsible.