To Tip or Not to Tip: Massueses
Does anybody else love getting a massage?
It’s not just the actual getting of the massage — from the very beginning, it’s an enjoyable experience. Choosing the right time of day (taking time off of work for a mid-afternoon massage, maybe, or right after work so you can go to sleep. Or maybe you prefer a weekend?
Regardless of when you like to have your massages, perhaps you’ve also wondered about how the price works out.
For starters, massages have a wide range of expense. You can get a deal for as little as $30 per hour, with a mid-range price being $60-80 per hour. And nicer spas? Upwards of $150 per hour.
What makes it worth it? What are the differences? And most importantly, how much of that money does the masseuse really see?
The Base Rate: How Much Does the Masseuse Really Make?
How much a masseuse makes depends on how they have structured their relationship with the brick and mortar spa (and also very much by their location).
Some masseuses are essentially small businesses or freelancers. If they start their own salon or spa, they run their massage business like a business, hiring masseuses and giving them a percentage of the hourly rate, or freelancing and taking in the entire fee, plus or minus their overhead costs.
Masseuses can also be similar to hair care stylists. They “rent a room” in the spa and get bookings based on referrals, reputation, and the reputation of the brick and mortar spa. This can be a monthly fee, or a per-appointment fee. They are also encouraged to recommend other products like a salon’s skin care line or aromatherapy.
The final, and most common arrangement, is for establishments to hire masseuses on an hourly basis, paying from minimum wage to $30 an hour. That means most masseuses only see about 50% or less of the treatment’s hourly rate.
The Tip Rate: To Tip or Not to Tip
Here’s the most interesting part, to me. I’ve often wondered how much to tip masseuses, because when you’re paying so much money for an hour of massage, it gets easy to think that a tip is over the tip. Yet many spas encourage a 15-20% tip!
When it comes down to it, the tip is the only way to make sure the masseuse is making the most money for their services.
This may or may not be fair: some could argue that the masseuse should negotiate the rate better, and that it is not the customer’s problem if they only see $15 per hour, about 18% of an $80 treatment cost to the client.
Others, of course, see tipping as a normal and friendly way to thank a masseuse for their time and attention.
Do you tip on a massage? What about other service industries?
I love getting massages – I just got a Groupon deal for 3 for $99 and they have been wonderful. I always tip 20% on the cost of the service BEFORE discount, or sometimes more if they are particularly awesome. I’ve never had a bad experience that I would consider tipping less than 20%.
My friend who is a massage therapist told me that the preferred term now is “massage therapist” – “masseuse” has connotations of “extra services” and things of that nature. That was after I introduced her as a “masseuse” and she was very embarrassed about it.
You’re definitely a very generous tipper!
When I was shooting a wedding every week, I used to schedule a massage at least 2x a month and often have someone just work on my arms and shoulders between those. I always tip – usually somewhere in the 18% to 20% range but even for a not-so great massage, I’ll leave around 10%. (I’ve never had a truly BAD massage – but I did have one therapist who kept a running monologue, which wouldn’t have been terrible, except she was a bit of a complainer.)
One thing, tho, I have 2 friends who are LMTs (Licensed Massage Therapists) and they both tell me that calling them “Masseuses” is a no-no. In the parlance of the industry a Masseuse is someone who does un-licenced massage. The professionals prefer to be called LMTs or Therapists or something with a less un-savory connotation.
Thank you for letting me know — I always thought “masseuse” and “massage therapist” were interchangeable. Apparently not!
I’m not sure why but I tip if it’s a small place and I don’t if it’s a big spa… It may not be very logical…
I can totally get that. I feel the same instinct myself! When it’s a big corporation, it seems like it’s more of a transaction than a service.
I always find myself in a predicament when it comes to giving tip because I tend to over tip, so said my friends. More so when it comes to services like a massage and I am well satisfied with the service.
So the better the service, the better the tip — makes sense!
I don’t usually tip my masseuse. Half the time, the people I see work for themselves and their overhead really isn’t very high at all.
I went to a spa for a bachelorette party this weekend and couldn’t believe the exorbitant prices they were charging there, things were $160+! My benefits only cover up to $95, so there was no way I was going there.
Using a small or local business makes a huge difference, I think!
I have never had a massage but if I get a prescription my employer will reimburse me for a portion of a massage from a registered massage therapist.
While I tip my hairdresser I would not consider tipping a person who is, like myself, working in health care. If I was at a spa and it was an unregistered person working for a low wage I would tip. I have a lot of debt to deal with before I can get to enjoy the finer things in life.
Thanks for your comment, Jane!
I’ve always tipped for massages even though it seems a little excessive at high-end spas. It just seems like the right thing to do! Always tip for services.
Right on, Bridget!
Oh, I really love having a good massage. Every once or twice a week I treated my mom to a massage salon and I gave tips to the masseuse too.
Thanks for your comment Marie!
I tip for massages, and haircuts, at the nail salon, etc. 20%.
Thanks for your comment Sherri!
For me, the single biggest factor in determining whether I tip or not is knowing how it’s treated between the business owner and their employees. If they deduct an amount from the person’s expected pay because they anticipate that customers will tip, then I’ll fill in that gap. If not, then I’m less likely to.
I’ve mentioned so many times that I think the system of tipping is a bad one — puts unnecessary worry in the hands of employees and customer
Very interesting! And this debate is heating up as the US looks to up minimum wage…
I don’t get massages often, but I usually tip about 15%. It just seems like the right thing to do after someone rubbed my body for an hour…
Lol!
I usually give tip for service especially if I am fully satisfied with what I received. And the amount also depends on how satisfied I am.
Thanks for commenting, Connor!
I’ve always tipped masseuses, but not cleaning staff!
I don’t know why! Does it even seem fair?