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Cutting Out Information Overload & Focusing On Things that Improve Your Life

A couple of months ago, I signed into my Rogers account to see why my phone bill was double that of what it usually is.

The answer was simple: I had gone over my monthly data allotment twice over.

I had a lot of data, and never even once came close to going over, so I knew there was an issue. I phoned Rogers and they sent me a log of all the data I had used each day for that billing period.

I know that I spend a lot of time on my phone, but even so, I was shocked by just how much.  I saw that even separate from the incident that resulted in my high bill (something uploading overnight), I use the data on my phone a disgusting amount.

I use data for a variety of different reasons: Google Maps, social media, email, and of course as a time killer. I have spent more time than I would like to admit browsing the  “What’s Hot” section on Buzzfeed.

What I didn’t realize until I got that report, was that I am usually using the data on my phone to obtain information that is of no use to me, and that does not align with my values.

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At best, my cell phone data ads little benefit to my life. At worst, it’s a tool used for procrastination and the nursing of an unhealthy dose of “FOMO” (fear of missing out).

I found myself checking my Facebook when I was at dinner with a friend, reaching for my phone on date nights when I should have been focusing on J, and (in the interest of full disclosure) even checking my email at red lights.

As I sit down to write for Add Vodka, I find my thumb dragging the slider across the screen of my iPhone, a mindless reaction to a pause in my thoughts or a moment of difficulty articulating something.

I came to the realization that I was paying an extra $40 per month for something to distract me and fill my mind with clutter.

After coming to this realization, I pushed the glaring evidence out of my mind, and save for the occasional gut feeling that I needed to get rid of the damn data, I forgot about it.

I spent the next few weeks falling back into old bad behaviours, my phone always at my fingers, social media always at my beck and call.

A couple of weeks ago I sat there with my phone in my hand, scrolling through Twitter, annoyed at the lack of quality tweets of some of the people I follow. I switched to Facebook and became quickly annoyed with that, too. Then I realized: I wasn’t annoyed by the people I follow on either social media site. I was annoyed because Facebook and Twitter and 98% of the information gleaned from the apps on my phone and the data that I use is filling my brain with crap that I don’t need to know and never really wanted to know.

This useless information was nudging out the space for the stuff that I do want to know and learn, leaving little room for the information that I should be focusing on: information which will help propel me forward and on which I can take action. Information that will contribute to my living a positive, healthy life.

In short, having data on my phone was making my life worse, even marginally.

I try to run all of my decisions through this simple test:

“Will this decision improve my life, have a neutral effect, or make my life worse?”

And for me, inarguably, the empty information obtained through my phone and the distraction and procrastination it provided pushed the data plan into the “worse” category.

Data is not inherently evil, but I wasn’t using it in a positive way.

It’s hard to change a habit, so instead of trying to restrain myself from checking Twitter every half an hour, I decided to cancel my data plan on my phone.

I realize that it is fairly rare that a female member of the Generation Y population – especially a blogger – exist without a data plan on her phone, but I still have WiFi at home.

This is taking effect September 1, which is the beginning of the next billing cycle. It will be easy at first; I’ll be on my honeymoon until early-mid October, where I will have no use for data.

Where I think I’ll likely struggle is planning ahead. I rely on Google Maps to get me where I need to go, and I rely on my phone for price comparisons, coupons, and other things when I am out and about. In the end, that is a small hurdle to improve my life and a good habit to get into, regardless.

Information overload is a problem in our society and it leaves little room for making important decisions and important information. Instead of trying to beat the system and show some serious restraint, I’m cutting the source of much of it from my life.

(Shout out to Cait for her recent post about pushing past clutter and James Clear for his not so recent post about information overload for giving me that extra push to cut out the intellectual clutter)

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21 Comments

  1. I can understand your point of view. When I’m away from my home wi-fi, I use my phone data mainly for work purposes and GPS but I actually don’t pay for data because I am always under 1 GB/month which is free. I refuse to put Facebook on my phone and I try to not go overboard with Twitter. Sometimes the chatter is too much!

  2. I’m thinking there’s something insidious about the ready access to everything offered by the combination of the Internet and smart devices. I don’t even own a smart phone, but I’m alarmed by the allure I’m feeling from my MacBook Air. My wife recently bought a Samsung Galaxy, which is a lot of fun to fool around with. I notice people under a certain age need to check their phones about every 3 minutes. Our house overlooks a basketball court, and when teenagers are playing there, they take game breaks at about that interval and everyone engages their phones. People walk around with their phones seemingly affixed to their palms. That I find these behaviors weird I know will be dismissed as a symptom of codgerhood, but who can argue that the quality of communication between humans isn’t rapidly declining.

    1. I would argue that communication between humans is declining in person, perhaps, but certainly not electronically. In fact, I’d say that communication between humans is what drives many people to their phones when they are taking a break of something. Texting friends or family members, emailing, interacting on social media – heck, even this blog is a form of communication.

  3. I have very little data on my phone, and don’t use it often. And yet my bill is still gross. My weakness is when I’m sitting down doing anything I *need* to play on the iPad. I end up on twitter every three minutes, then my website, then Facebook, then reddit. All just because my fingers have memorized the addresses. I can’t just sit there – I have to do multiple things. D calls me on it frequently, and yet… I still do it.

    I might need to take a page out of your book, and forget the password to my home wifi.

  4. It’s all clear now – haha sorry for the out of context recommendation on cheaper data… you don’t want any data!

    By no means am I some monk in total control, but I feel like I have a handle on my smartphone and it’s mainly used as a tool rather than time-sink-blackhole.

    I average around 500mb data a month with wifi at work and home. If you ever decide to get back into having some data, hit me up. Kodoo prepaid is amazing (the pre-bought data never expires).

    Congrats on eliminating a time waster in your life!

  5. This reminds me of one of my New Year’s resolutions to leave my phone alone more often. It’s gross how mindlessly I reach for it sometimes! This post is a good reminder! 🙂

  6. It’s all those reasons that you mentioned that I never wanted a smartphone in the first place. Yes I realize that you can actually get work done on them, but at the same time I get more frustrated when I’m out with people and they are engaged with their phones and not the people that they are actually out with.

    I’m sure someday I will probably get one, but it’s not something I’m rushing towards.

    1. I’m proud of you for not having a smart phone, Zee. I think I gave in to the pressure of everybody having one and bought one.

  7. I installed FB, Twitter and IG on my phone and tablet and I can even find myself in the middle of the night still reading peoples’ status and looking at their pictures. I know, it’s not really right and I need to control it. Btw, I can’t wait for your honeymoon!

  8. Great post – you’ve come to the realization that many people are now coming too; phone’s are a time suck. I’m guilty too. I no longer use my iPhone as a phone, just as an iPod Touch when I’m on wifi which is just about everywhere and it’s cut back on the amount of time that I’ve spent filling my mind with crap.

    I still could improve a little though. My BF doesn’t have a phone and it drives him crazy and rightfully so when I pick it up in the middle of a conversation with him. It’s rude.

    I’m trying to pick up an actual book now when I have a few minutes to spare.

  9. When my husband and I returned to Toronto following our 2-years of traveling, one of the first things we debated was getting a cell phone plan (our phones are unlocked, so we would just do month-to-month pay as you go), but to be completely honest, once we saw the price of plans here in Canada we were absolutely flabbergasted and just couldn’t justify the cost. The truth is, most people are used to getting in touch with us via email these days and chatting with us via Skype and the like, so every so often we borrow one of my parents cell phones with have talk minutes and texting and that’s more than enough. Would I like to be able to jump on our phones when we’re out and about looking for a place to eat? Sure, but I actually enjoy being unplugged, given that I spend most of my day in front of the computer, and I agree that once you have that easy access to the web, it’s all too easy to get tangled up in it. It’s generally not too terribly difficult to find free WiFi if we really need it, but I always remind myself that 10+ years ago, hardly anyone even had a cell phone and we all managed to survive!

    1. Oh the PRICES here are nuts. Compared to the US, we definitely pay far more. A data plan is more of a convenience thing, I think. And you’re right, free WiFi isn’t that hard to find.

  10. I was THE ONLY known blogger in my city (and country) to NOT have a smartphone. I purchased one 2 months ago (will change carriers and the old one had to be ‘unlocked’, which was an useless costs for a 5 year old phone anyway). Got myself a very cheap LG (about 150 bucks – with no plan, so the ‘full price’ was paid), which has data and wi-fi. Have disabled 3G and use the wi-fi, sporadically. I have my wi-fi at home, where I also work as a web designer. If I am off my laptop, I am offline and won’t bother with the internet 😀

  11. I also had a bigger amount of phone bill which I was not expecting at all. Since then, I cut it off and just used promo provided by line subscriber. Until now, I am using that means just to control my phone expenses because I only subscribe to promos whenever I need it the most.

  12. Wow! Now that is a change. I too feel that I am using my phone too often, usually to fill short 2-3 mintues bursts of inactivity. But why? I could live in the here and now more often and enjoy things around me more if I didn’t pick up my phone every time there is a short pause in things going on around me. We all need to at least reduce our data dependence.

  13. I have a phone with an unlimited data plan right now that I have to have for work, paid for by work. I hope someday to go back to a regular phone and do away with all the distractions that I have on there: email, & facebook being the 2 biggest time-wasters. I try to be a good example for friends, and not pick it up at all when I’m with them, but they all seems to always be on theirs. And I often am the one sitting there just sipping my drink looking around while they are all looking at their phones… (and I’m 46 with several friends in their early 50’s, but many in their late 20’s and 30’s). I often long for the days before smart phones and facebook. Love your post and that you got rid of yours. It sounds so FREEING!!!

    1. Thanks for commenting, Sherri. It’s not easy to stay disciplined and stay off the phone. That’s why I cut the data plan instead of cutting down on the amount I use it! I am
      Sure it’s very difficult considering you HAVE to have yours for work.

      There is nothing more frustrating than trying to interact with somebody who is always on their phone. I wish it wasn’t such a societal norm.

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